kenape jadi begini????

Dear Friends,

I´m so insecure right now, like posting here my own problems to people who I don´t know, but I just think your replies are absolutely great. I really hope I dont bore you with my message. I just really don´t have no one to talk to right now!

Im 21 years old, married since july to my husband ( 23 ). We know each other since year 2000, and last august we got married and moved in together.
Well, since then, since we see each other EVERYDAY, as he says with an anoyed voice, things have really change SO MUCH. But to worse.

Like he is never excited to see me or do things together, because he says we already LIVE together. I mean I always tell him that doesnt really mean anything, cause you can live with someone and not necessarily BE with him.

When he sees me after university, I like run to him happy and hug him, but he doesnt seem to care much.
I just have the feeling he TOTALLY lost passion, romanticism and all that kind of stuff.
Valentines day went by, he didnt give me nothing, not even a candlelight dinner at home!!just NOTHING. My b-day came, and the same, no present, no surprise party, nothing I had to organise everything myself.
Sometimes this men sell roses on the street and Im like always staring and them and him?? dont care!!

Also he can go for two weeks without making love, and I mean we are WAY to young for all this, right?? I mean what will happen when Im 40??

Spring break went by and I was sooooo looking forward to going on a small trip with him!! cause I LOVE travelling, I found 10 GREAT offers but he said :
" Why should we travel you and me alone?? how boring!! for this we just stay home "

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I am such an active person, and next to him I just dont do anything because whatever I say I would like to do, he says " NO "

HELP!!!!!!!!!! This situation is really overcoming me.

dah habis bace???

rase2 nape jadi cmni?

sedihkan???

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