nak bagi ni....nak tak?

assalamualaikum wbt..

lama dh tak menulis..tibe2 datang mood nk nulih...xkisahla orang nk aca ke tak...yang penting bile diri sndiri tengok blog ni akan mengingatkan diri sndiri jugak..
baru ni ku terbaca sebuah buku berjudul satu rasa 2 hati..memang best...baca pengenalan buku tu pun dah menarik..terus jadi excited nak baca buku tu...buku tu membincangkan bagaimana kita nak membina sebuah hubungan yang harmoni....sebenarnya benda ni bukanlah tertumpu untuk pasangan yang nk berumah tangga je tapi untuk semua lapisan masyarakat..

yang paling melekat dalam segenap ruang minda ku ini bile ustaz tu tulis...
"untuk membina sebuah hubungan yang harmoni..kita jangan terlalu memikirkan ape yang patut kita terima,tetapi kita perlu lebih memikirkan ape yang patut kita beri.."

boleh trime tak?aku sgt setuju dgn statement tu...bagiku..hati yang memberi lebih baek dari hati yang menerima..sebab bukan mudah untuk kita menjadi seorang yang suka memberi ni.teringat seorang kawan antar comment..hatinya masih sukar lagi untuk menerima orang laen dalam hidupnya..rase2 kenapa ye??hemm..bagiku..ini adelah kerana kite merupakan seorang yang susah untuk memberi..kalu nak menerima pun susah...nak memberi apatah lagi kan...

begitu jugak dalam hubungan kita dgn Rabb...hidup kita ini terlalu suka meminta minta..tapi mengingatiNya hanya sekli skala...ramai yang selalu tulis..ku mendamba kasih Ilahi...tapi jarang yang nak tulis..kasihku hanya untukMU Rabbi...sebabnya kita memang senang untuk meminta dan menerima..tapi amat susah untukmempelawa dan memberi...


fikir fikirkan lah...
wllahua'alm

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kenape jadi begini????

Dear Friends,

I´m so insecure right now, like posting here my own problems to people who I don´t know, but I just think your replies are absolutely great. I really hope I dont bore you with my message. I just really don´t have no one to talk to right now!

Im 21 years old, married since july to my husband ( 23 ). We know each other since year 2000, and last august we got married and moved in together.
Well, since then, since we see each other EVERYDAY, as he says with an anoyed voice, things have really change SO MUCH. But to worse.

Like he is never excited to see me or do things together, because he says we already LIVE together. I mean I always tell him that doesnt really mean anything, cause you can live with someone and not necessarily BE with him.

When he sees me after university, I like run to him happy and hug him, but he doesnt seem to care much.
I just have the feeling he TOTALLY lost passion, romanticism and all that kind of stuff.
Valentines day went by, he didnt give me nothing, not even a candlelight dinner at home!!just NOTHING. My b-day came, and the same, no present, no surprise party, nothing I had to organise everything myself.
Sometimes this men sell roses on the street and Im like always staring and them and him?? dont care!!

Also he can go for two weeks without making love, and I mean we are WAY to young for all this, right?? I mean what will happen when Im 40??

Spring break went by and I was sooooo looking forward to going on a small trip with him!! cause I LOVE travelling, I found 10 GREAT offers but he said :
" Why should we travel you and me alone?? how boring!! for this we just stay home "

:((((((((((((((((((((((((

I am such an active person, and next to him I just dont do anything because whatever I say I would like to do, he says " NO "

HELP!!!!!!!!!! This situation is really overcoming me.



dah habis bace???

rase2 nape jadi cmni?

sedihkan???

sebelum kahwin bahagia je...tp..lps kahwin...laen plak jadinya..

kembalilah pada akar umbi...insyaAllah selesai masalah..

setiap yg berlaku mesti ade hikmah..tapi terpulanglah pada mereka yang mahu memikirkannya@tidak..

wallahua'lam

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